Figure Us Out. Personality & Relationship Insights Get your free personality report
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Understand yourselfUnderstand each other

See each other in a new light and discover what your two personalities create together.

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One payment covers both of you. No subscription.

orGet your free personality report

Read your own personality report, then invite your partner for a free comparison. No payment required.

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Alex Morgan
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What the couples package includes

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Your personality report

What makes you, you.

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Your partner’s personality report

See things from their perspective.

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Your couples guidebook

Discover what your two personalities create together.

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Your 12-week workbook

Put your personalized results into practice.

What people are saying

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Ruth

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“I felt that it sparked a lot of great conversations about different scenarios that we had already been through and how we could do it better with more understanding.”
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Sep 24, 2026

Aaron

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“This guide is helping me understand better how to help my wife feel more love. It is so accurate about our different styles.”
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Oct 02, 2026

Joseph

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“My wife and I took the assessment independently, and comparing our profiles generated some great insights into how our personalities blend.”
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Sep 25, 2026

Two people on separate bicycles join on a tandem bicycle. Handwritten notes explore how understanding both personalities can help you recognize your strengths, appreciate each other, and see what you create together.

What’s free, and what’s in the full package?

Start with a report about you. Go further when you’re ready.

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Free

Get to know yourself, then see how you and your partner compare.

  • Concise personality report
  • Your personality charts
  • Your free partner comparison

How the free option works

Take the assessment, then add your name and verify your email to read the first part of your report and see your charts.

Send an email invitation for the other person to take their own free assessment. The rest of your personal report opens right away, including your MBTI-style and Enneagram results. You don’t have to wait for them to finish.

Once you’ve both finished and connected your results, you can see your free couples comparison.

Get your free personality report

No payment required. Saved results carry over if you upgrade.

$35for both of you

Your package includes:

  • Complete personality reports for both of you
  • Your MBTI-style and Enneagram profiles
  • Your complete couples guidebook
  • The full 12-week workbook
  • Your complete, print-ready book
  • Your AI guide
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How Figure Us Out works

See how Figure Us Out works

  1. Answer questions about yourself

    Your couples package covers both of you. Take your assessments together or separately, whenever works for you.

  2. Discover your personality

    Allow about 15 to 20 minutes for your assessment. Your personal results are ready when you finish.

    Already know your MBTI and Enneagram types? Skip the test with the paid package.

  3. Invite your partner

    Invite your partner before or after your test. They use your invitation to link their results with yours, so you can both see the comparison.

  4. See how your personalities come together.

    Explore your couples guidebook, personalized workbook and print-ready book at your own pace.

Get the couples package for $35

One payment covers both of you. No subscription.

Included in your couples package

Your personality reports

Understand how each of you thinks, communicates and approaches everyday life.

Alex’s sample report

How you find your words

“Talking isn’t always how you present a finished opinion. Sometimes it’s how you figure out the opinion in the first place.”

An excerpt from Alex’s sample report.

A page from Alex’s report showing his personality at a glance and what makes him who he is

Morgan’s sample report

How you show care

“You often show affection by being reliable. You remember details, keep agreements, offer practical help, and notice what could make someone’s day easier.”

An excerpt from Morgan’s sample report.

A page from Morgan’s report showing her personality at a glance and what makes her who she is
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A closer look at each of you

Your strengths, what matters to you, how you respond under pressure, and what helps you feel understood.

Alex’s sample report

Alex’s sample report, page 3: You at a glance and What makes you, you
“Alex, you want room to explore, follow what feels alive, and choose your own direction. You also want solid people around you and some sense that the ground won’t vanish under your feet.”
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Morgan’s sample report

Morgan’s sample report, page 3: You at a glance and What makes you, you
“Morgan, you want to do right by people and be someone they can count on. You notice what needs doing, care about doing it well, and would rather make life calmer than create extra trouble.”
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Included in your couples package

Your couples guidebook

Explore your natural strengths as a couple, the perspectives you each bring, and ways to better understand each other.

Sample couples guidebook

Alex and Morgan’s preferences

Alex Morgan
Six everyday preferences Clockwise from the top: Solitude to Social, Examples to Concepts, Wing it to Plan it, Think quietly to Think aloud, Comfort to Solutions, and Move on to Fine-tune. A position closer to an outside word leans toward that preference. The middle ring means a balance between the two preferences. The center is empty. Neither endpoint is better, and shape size and overlap are not compatibility scores. Names in the legend identify the solid blue line with circles and the dashed rust line with diamonds. The scales below describe each person’s preferences. Solitude Social Examples Concepts Wing it Plan it Think quietly Think aloud Comfort Solutions Move on Fine-tune
See where their everyday preferences are similar and different. Neither end is better.

From Alex and Morgan’s sample guidebook

What each of you brings to the relationship.

“Alex brings energy, options, and forward movement. Morgan brings care, clear standards, and follow-through. This can make you effective together without locking either of you into one role.”
Open a sample page about Alex and Morgan’s natural strengthsOpen a sample page about how Alex and Morgan may each feel loved
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Understand the person beside you

Explore your strengths as a pair, each person’s perspective, everyday patterns, and how you each feel loved.

Your natural strengths

See what each of you contributes and the strengths you can create together.

Actual sample guidebook page 7: Alex and Morgan’s natural strengths

How you each feel loved

Suggestions to explore together, with room for your own experiences and preferences.

Actual sample guidebook page 18: How Alex and Morgan may each feel loved
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Included in your couples package

Your 12-week couples workbook

Put what you learn into practice through conversations and exercises you can work through together.

Make time to understand each other.

Each of you has your own space to write. Your drafts stay private until you choose to share them.

Use it online or print a copy, and go at your own pace.

A couple sitting close together and looking at a tablet
Sample printable workbook pages from week 7, How to help each other
A printable workbook example. Included in your digital package.
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Week 7 · Read-only sample

How to help each other

See how a prompt becomes a conversation. Write privately first, then choose what you want to share.

Online workbook · Sample view

Read-only screenshot of the online workbook with private drafts and sharing controls
Sample names and blank answers. This image shows the workbook’s layout.
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Printable week 7 workbook: How to help each other
A printable page from the included 12-week workbook.
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A note from James and Julie

We’re a married couple in Hawaii with four kids, and we’re still learning about ourselves and each other. Learning about our personalities has helped us see why we sometimes misread each other’s intentions, even when we both mean well.

Some of these patterns can take years to recognize. We created Figure Us Out to give other couples a way to learn these things sooner and put that understanding to use in everyday life.

Read our story

There’s more to understand about the person you love.

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Common questions

What comes with the couples package?

One purchase includes an in-depth personality report for each of you, your personalized couples guidebook, downloadable PDFs, and a 12-week workbook you can use online or print.

You can also ask the AI guide questions about your results. See the terms for details.

Compare the free experience and full package.

Do I have to take the assessment if I already know my personality types?

With the paid couples package, you can use your MBTI type and Enneagram type, including your wing, instead of taking a new assessment. Open your assessment and choose “Already know your MBTI and Enneagram types?”

Each of you can choose separately. If you’re unsure of your types or wing, take the assessment instead.

The free experience starts with the assessment. If you’ve already completed it, your saved results carry over when you upgrade.

What is the assessment like?

Allow about 15 to 20 minutes. You can pause and come back.

An example from the assessment
Example question: I often need to talk through an idea before I know what I think about it. Choices range from Very Inaccurate to Very Accurate.

Questions adapt to your answers, so your assessment may include different questions.

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Does the test ask questions about our relationship?

No. You each answer questions about yourself, not about your relationship. We use both personality profiles to create a personalized couples guidebook that explores what makes the two of you unique together.

Do we have to take the assessment at the same time?

No. Take your assessments together or separately, whenever works for you. Each of you answers for yourself.

Your personal report is ready after your assessment. Once you’ve both finished and shared your results, we prepare your couples guidebook and email you when it’s ready.

Who can see my answers and reports?

Your assessment answers aren’t shown to your partner, and your reports aren’t public. With the free experience, you each have your own personal guide and see the same visual couples comparison when sharing is active. The full package adds a shared couples guidebook.

With the full package, your complete personality reports are shared with each other by default. You can check or change report sharing in your account.

If you’ve already made a sharing choice, we’ll keep it.

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What if I’ve already taken the free assessment?

Sign in with the email you verified to read your report. If you haven’t verified it yet, return to your assessment in the same browser to finish saving your results. Your completed answers carry over.

Your free report starts with four chapters and your personality charts. Once you send your partner an email invitation, you can read the rest of your report, including your personality types. Once you connect your finished results, you can both read your free comparison. The paid package adds your couples guidebook, personalized workbook, AI guide and downloadable book.

If you took an earlier free assessment, your original saved report stays available. Open your account to see your existing results and upgrade options.

How are the reports made?

Your answers establish your personality profile. Your personal guide is selected from our prepared guide library to match that profile.

With the full package, AI helps develop your couples guide using both profiles, our report framework and a structured library of relationship strengths and recurring patterns.

See how your guides are prepared
What is the refund policy?

If you’re dissatisfied with your package, submit the refund form within 14 days of purchase for a full refund. Choose a reason and leave a short private comment. We aim to review requests within 24 hours.

A refund returns the full amount actually paid for that package, including applicable tax, to the original payment method and ends online access for both people. Bank processing takes additional time. Delivery problems and applicable consumer rights remain separately covered.

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